All Episodes

447. “My Team Feared Me” | Redefining Leadership and Purpose with Kyle McDowell

the daily helping podcast Jan 05, 2026

Kyle McDowell joins us for a deeply honest conversation about leadership, apathy, and the moment success stopped feeling meaningful. After nearly three decades leading massive teams inside Fortune 10 organizations, Kyle hit a wall that forced him to confront the culture he had helped create—and the leader he had become. That reckoning led to the creation of the Ten “We’s,” a set of principle-based behaviors that would eventually form the foundation of his bestselling book, Begin With We.

 

We explore how fear-based, command-and-control leadership erodes trust, silences truth, and fuels disengagement. Kyle shares the pivotal experiences that taught him the power of embracing challenge, setting clear standards, and letting go of ego so others can step forward. Through stories ranging from executive boardrooms to a single shopping cart in a grocery store parking lot, he shows how integrity is built in small, observable moments.

 

What emerges is a compelling case for a better way to lead—and to live—one grounded in accountability, shared ownership, and the human obligation to leave people better than we found them.

 

The Biggest Helping: Today’s Most Important Takeaway

“There is a better way. You don’t have to be on the hamster wheel.”

 

--

 

Thank you for joining us on The Daily Helping with Dr. Shuster. Subscribe to the show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube to download more food for the brain, knowledge from the experts, and tools to win at life.

 

Resources:

 

Produced by NOVA

2167415948

There is incredible potential that lies within each and every one of us to create positive change in our lives (and the lives of others) while achieving our dreams.

This is the Power of You!