388. These Universal Laws will Change Your Life | Quantum Philosophy with Victoria Rader

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Victoria Rader:

If this infinite universe had a better way to fill in the place and time that you currently occupy, it would have done so, but it has not. So you, as you are, are exact, intricate, beautiful, powerful, magnificent piece of the puzzle. Remember that and start releasing everything that's unworthy of that.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Hello and welcome to The Daily Helping with Dr. Richard Shuster, food for the brain, knowledge from the experts, tools to win at life. I'm your host, Dr. Richard. Whoever you are, wherever you're from, and whatever you do, this is the show that is going to help you become the best version of yourself. Each episode you will hear from some of the most amazing, talented, and successful people on the planet who followed their passions and strived to help others. Join our movement to get a million people each day to commit acts of kindness for others. Together, we're going to make the world a better place. Are you ready? Because it's time for your Daily Helping.

Thanks for tuning into this episode of The Daily Helping Podcast, I'm your host, Dr. Richard. And our guest today is awesome, Dr. Vica, Victoria Rader is a visionary leader and possibility coach, transforming lives through her pioneering work in quantum personal development.

As the founder of YU2Shine, she empowers individuals to break free from limitations and unlock their fullest potential. Globally recognized for her expertise, Dr. Vica blends cutting edge quantum techniques with timeless wisdom to guide her clients towards prosperity, personal freedom, and inner fulfillment. She's a bestselling author, speaker, and creator of breakthrough tools like Quantum Freedom and Empower-mE app for transformational teachings. Have been featured in Forbes, CNN, Fox, NBC, ABC, and countless others. And her wisdom has even reached the moon - we got to talk about that - through the Lunar Legacy Project with SpaceX.

Dr. Vica, there's a lot of really fun things we're going to get to talk about today. Welcome to The Daily Helping. It is awesome, awesome to have you with us today.

Victoria Rader:

Thank you so much. It is so joyful already. And what a treat, I'm really looking forward to this conversation.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

I am as well. Like I said, there are so many things I want to talk to you about. But let's jump in the Dr. Vica time machine. Let's go back. Talk to us about what puts you on the path you're on today.

Victoria Rader:

You know, in the beginning, there was a light.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

That's very biblical sounding, in the beginning, there was a light.

Victoria Rader:

But it is, there is a light within your ATP. We can talk about spirituality of the light. We can talk about the physics. In the beginning, there was a light. We now know when the two cells meet, the two primary cells meet, there's a spark of light. I mean, that just came through and we're going to go with what's coming through.

So, I was born in Soviet Union, where there was no light, or no perceivable light, I should say. I was born actually in Ukraine, and unfortunately now everybody knows what that is and where that is and not for the most enlightening purposes. But I was born in a country that had no freedom and that is the beginning of my story, because very early on I understood on a subconscious level that the freedom inside is untouchable. And that no matter what happens outside of me, no matter what I'm stripped off, or feel I have no choice in, what I think about it, how I feel about it, and by golly, the way I dream through it is untouchable, and in it lies the infinite freedom.

So, that has been the beginning of who I am, the little girl who in the summer lived in a village with an outhouse, and yet was taught to be grateful because she had water from the well outside of indoor plumbing. And so, I start with a journey of gratitude with what is and the presence of abundance with what is. And I've grown through circumstances of that as a child. So, you kind of speed forward, very early on understood that I had gifts, but really thought they were curses. I was very, very psychic. I could see the person and know the person on the way that had no reasonable explanation.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Give us an example of that.

Victoria Rader:

Set an example of that, so I'm going to talk about an 11 year old. My mom's friend comes in, her name is Lyudmila, she comes in and I'm very uneasy because I see a huge conflict around her. I see huge energy. I see her being hurt, crying. I literally see her in her bed, crying herself to bed.

And I also have an immediate knowing that there is something that has to do with her husband. That's an 11 year old. I pulled my mom aside and I'm like, something's strange, I feel these things. Only to find out that there is a betrayal in the family, they end up in a divorce.

And so, over the years, it culminates when I'm 16. And a 16 year old, I'm going to an academy in Kyiv. And every Saturday for the fun of it, I have a bunch of girls and, what I now use as the language, I scan their energy. At that point, I don't know what the hell I'm doing. I was like, well, let's see what's in alignment for you. I'm not using big words like alignment.

I don't remember what I'm using. We're just having fun. We're having fun. Call it fortune telling. That's probably the language for a 16 year old, right? And by the way, if you guys are into fortune telling, I'm going to repeat, that's a language for 16 year olds, okay? So, it's fortune making, fortune creating, yeah, yeah, yeah, but fortune telling.

And one day, I am with my friend Danya Chmukhova, and I very clearly see a death of her father. It scares me. I don't share it. I don't mention anything. He's a 40 year old young man who dies of a heart attack two days later. And that throws me into a whole new spectrum of awareness.

I'm terrified of this gift. I feel something is wrong with me. I feel that maybe there was something I should have done. And I throw myself into religion, and then into religions plural, and then into spirituality, and that journey continues for a good 20 years, adding on a PhD in metaphysics as the science of quantum physics and spirituality combined.

And so, that would be the beginning of what it is that I'm doing now without any fear, and without hiding the light that I am, and teaching others to do the same.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

There's a lot to unpack there, and what I'm excited to talk to you about is you actually have a postgraduate degree in quantum physics. And so, quantum physics, it's kind of like self-care, right? Self-care became a buzzword after COVID, self-care, self-care. Quantum physics became kind of a buzzword after that movie, The Secret, came out in the early 2000s, and everybody's talking about quantum physics. But you actually have a degree in it.

Victoria Rader:

I have a degree in metaphysics. I don't want to get credit for what it's not due. Quantum physics is the hard science of physics. I have a soft degree in philosophy of quantum physics as to how it's reflected in spirituality. I just don't want anybody to assume anything.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

All right. That's fair. But that's even better actually for the conversation we're going to have today. So, if somebody is not a longtime listener in the show, because we have touched on quantum physics from time to time, in the Dr. Vica nomenclature, give us your definition of quantum science, because you refer to yourself as a quantum pioneer, which is cool, I want to talk about too. But I think we have to understand the quantum before we can talk about your pioneering in that space.

Victoria Rader:

So, we want to talk about immediacy and instancy, the two concepts that are the concepts of quantum physics. In linear logical physics, in the physics of 3D, in a mechanical physics fathered by Isaac Newton, there is a time lapse, there is time, distance, and movement. And when you look at time, distance, and movement, the reality in which we live, we are under control of either time or distance or movement that is a relationship between time and distance, truly.

And so, all the laws of mechanical, I'll put us on a timeline. This is where I am in personal development and this is where I'm going. So, I'm going to set the goal. I'm going to do a little post and I'm going to move in that direction. It's the binaural system, black and white, it's a one and a zero, and in comes quantum physics.

Quantum physics says time is relevant, space is relevant, it is relevant to who the observer is. And so, now all of a sudden, you go from a choice of between choosing A and B, which is the mechanical physics. In mechanics, if it doesn't go up, it's going down, or it may be stuck in between on its way up or down. In quantum physics, all of a sudden, any particle has the capacity to infinitely and simultaneously move in all directions. So, we go from a choice between A and B to an infinite possibility of choices.

So, where we take quantum application of infinite possibility of choices as energy into personal development, we now use a very beautiful language.

Everything is possible. What is probable? How do I make it the most probable? The birth of a miracle is first understanding everything is possible, and second, inviting and increasing the probability of it happening in your life. So, the quantum physics is the study of infinite possibilities underpinned by practical probabilities of achieving any one of them.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

That was beautifully said. And so then, I want to circle back to you as a quantum pioneer, so talk to us about what that means.

Victoria Rader:

Yes. So, in personal development, if you were to summarize it in one phrase, you would say it is mind over matter. How would you play with that? It's mind over matter. And so, it's mindset that causes the emotion, the emotion drives you into the action, the action brings result. That is a summary of all personal development work there is.

Quantum personal development says, yes, but what is over mind? Because it is what you put your mind under that will direct your understanding. You stand under it. And in quantum personal development that we're pioneering, that concept of surrender of your mind to the concept of love. And love is not just a touchy feely, I hug you, you feel better. Which is important, everybody should get three hugs today and then tell me how much better you feel after that even if you're not a touchy feely person.

But that's not what love is. Love for us is life originating vibrant emotion or energy in motion, life originating vibrant emotion. Everything that originates and supports life, that pours energy into life is love. That is as simple as I could possibly have stated it.

And so, quantum pioneer of personal development is somebody who says, it's great you have these goals, we can work on your mindset, but we start with surrender to love. Let's surrender the vision to love because it shifts you out of the egocentric personal development to divinely centric expansion. And the development that impacts every single life in the best and highest way, and always very much like Daily Helping does.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

I love this. I mean, the purpose of the show for the last seven years is to get everybody to live their best self so that they are in a space where they feel great. And if everybody is happy and feeling great, the world is better than it was the day before. So, this is very much the chocolate to my proverbial peanut butter, which makes me happy.

So, playing a little bit of devil's advocate, because this is fun, so how is that different, you know, surrender to love? You've studied multiple religions and spirituality. You have this degree in metaphysics, which is a little blend of both. So, how is this different than just surrendering to a particular deity and applying religious doctrine to your personal development? Where's that different?

Victoria Rader:

It doesn't have to be different if it's aligned.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Right. Okay.

Victoria Rader:

And as a matter of fact, no matter what religious path you walk - so I ended up actually being Christian, practicing metaphysical Christian. I'm Christian. I'm ODS. And I'll tell you why.

I've studied and written on the laws my whole life, universal laws. You can throw any law at me, I will understand it and explain it in a way that is uniquely geared towards the question. It's a talent. It's not mine. It's God-given, so I'm going to praise it. And so, because I understood the laws and because I've studied the karmic wheel and the dharmic path, I also understand that in this matter, in this physical reality, none of us, none of us can outrun karma. We are subject to the laws. Not to ignore them. We are to master universal laws constantly and continually.

And when there is a gap of mastery, we can use the law of what I call divine grace. And there's only one master who's done it. I'm not preaching. I'm sharing. So, you have a choice of how you align with the universal laws and how you work with them. And I love them, I work with them, and we help people of all walks in life to see which laws they're subject to and how to be working with them instead of being punished by them.

Dr. Richard Shuster: 

Okay. This is interesting. You've mentioned the universal laws a couple of times. You mentioned karma, which I think most people understand karma, dharma, probably not as many. How many universal laws are there? I guess, first, that's a good starting question.

Victoria Rader:

Infinitely.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Infinitely. Okay. So, we don't have time to name them all then. But you mentioned karma, you mentioned dharma, let's talk about those two maybe just for a few sentences.

Victoria Rader:

Let's talk about what I believe the energy of the podcast is asking for, and it's a new revolutionary concept. You love bringing revolutionary concepts in.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

We do.

Victoria Rader:

And people heard about karma and they might want to choose. But let me give the reversal of the law that I know will change everybody's life today, if they tune into hear and if they tune in to apply it.

Innovation is inspiration plus implementation. I'm going to inspire you. That's a gift. Whether you implement it or not is a choice. So, let's lean into innovation of a brand new law. We've all heard that there is a law of giving and receiving, which you would say is the law of the harvest, which is under category of karma. What you give is what comes back, so it's giving and receiving.

So, what I would like to propose and then argue in favor of - the girl got a dissertation, I had to argue my point - is that the actual universal law is not the law of giving and receiving. It is the law of receiving and giving. And because we've misconstrued it and violated it with our misconstruction, we are such a subject through the punishment by that law.

What do I mean by that? Let's look at the biology of it. This life starts when you take your first breath physiologically. You receive the air into your lungs. And this life ends biologically when you let go of that last breath. You receive life and then you give it. Now, that is the biology of that.

Let's look at the energy psychology of that. You know, Wayne Dyer used to say that when you squeeze an orange, what comes out is orange juice. No matter how hard you squeeze it, apple juice is not going to come out. What do I translate it to? When life happens to you and it squeezes you, what comes out of you is what's inside of you.

We say he made me do it. She made me angry. He drives me crazy. Oh. No, buddy, you're full of crazy and you're full of anger. And he, she, they pushed the button on me that released who I am inside so I can only give what I've already received, whether I received it as a child or I'm receiving it from daily nourishing. What I'm watching is what's coding my reception. What I'm listening to is what is I'm receiving in order to give. So, we receive first and then we give.

Why is it so crucial to understanding? Because what happens when you give and you think you're giving first in order to receive, you give with strings attached. And when you give with strings attached, you're poisoning a beautiful, pure flow of prosperity. And then, you say, no, no, no, I don't give with strings attached. When we are so self-punishing, that I'm giving but I don't want anything in return, that comes from guilt. I'm giving but I'm already guilty ahead of time that I'm giving for the purpose of receiving.

So, either you try to manipulate the universe and you give in order to receive, which is poison, or you're guilty about not trying to do it and then you're vibrating at an energy of subconscious guilt, which is very, very poisonous and it prevents your ability to create the life you want.

But when you reverse it and you understand that you're receiving first, that you've already received, there's nothing to gain by what you're giving. You've already received so much, and as you allow for that to be then given into the world, you're now tapping on the paralysis of guilt

into prosperity of grace. So, once you understand the law of receiving and giving, you can start applying it in a very powerful and immediate way.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

One of the things that we've been trying to do here for many years is impart upon people that there is a biological component to this, and I love this because you're coming at this from a spiritual and energy standpoint. And I understand that there is a biological component. We, as human beings, are hardwired to feel good when we do good things for other people. And you can put sensors on people's brains and actually observe areas of the brain light up in real time when this happens.

I think it's interesting, and I think about this, you know, through the lens of a psychologist, because I have heard many people in this space, whether they're psychiatrists or whether they're counselors or coaches, I've heard them say in different ways, they don't want to charge a lot for what they're doing, or that there seems to be this inherent disconnect with the helping profession in general, because people in that space have an unhealthy relationship, I think, with money.

And to apply this, Dr. Vica, what you're talking about, we're talking about receiving. They should view it and we should all view it. We've already received it. If we have a skill, because we all have something that makes us uniquely us, that we're really here to do. Whether we realize it yet or not, all of us have have talents, unique talents. And there are people willing to compensate us, even if it's not monetary compensation, it could be something else to compensate us for our talents, but a lot of people struggle with that. So, thank you for really explaining that in a beautiful way, because it's the inverse of what we're all taught.

Victoria Rader:

Yes. And beyond that, too, what you've just said so powerfully is two concepts, the self-sabotage will block the receiving and then we'll want the ego to pander to it. So, everybody can get better at receiving. I've mentioned to you earlier, we actually have a whole mygiftoffer.com of 50 sabotaging programs and shift to the ones that open receiving, to mention that.

But it's deeper than that, it's to understand - and this will be very freeing for many people - that when you struggle to receive from another person, you're assuming unconsciously that you're better than them. That they're less blessed. That they're less abundant. It actually comes from an unhealthy hidden sense of superiority for any of us to think that others cannot pour into us and then we prevent them from triggering the receiving and giving in a beautiful way. And so, it's framing it that way when somebody offers anything, find a way to receive it in the most graceful way.

I've learned that in a very difficult way. I remember speaking to an audience, I was a very shy kid. I've gone through a lot of trauma as a kid. Which codes into your mind, you're a psychologist, very often it's shyness. I was a very shy kid. I did not speak for years, actually. And there's that shy kid speaking on a public stage. The first time I was speaking to a huge audience, and they stood up and I got a standing ovation, I physically became so uncomfortable, I started backing off the stage, trying to get off as fast as I can. I felt my mentor physically push me back up front. It was the most awkward way to observe this whole thing. And I finally came in there.

When I got off the stage, he looked at me and he said, "Some of those people, they've received so much from you, and all they can give you back is the gratitude in the form of ovation. Who do you think you are to disregard their gratitude?" Oh, wow. You talk of moments that are tiny that are huge. I stood there and that was probably the most profound self-healing on receiving I've gone through. And so, when somebody blesses you in their best capacity, I feel it's my responsibility to receive it fully.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

That's a really beautiful illustration, and I can't help but think, again, you're reframing self-sabotage in a different way. A lot of times people frame it under the opposite. It's a lack of self-worth, but you're describing it is actually that there's an arrogance that maybe we're taught because of our upbringing or a friend or something. And as you're talking about coding, and I'm thinking about what is the theoretical cognitive framework that translates to what you're talking about, the end result, nonetheless, is that we are we are self-sabotaging.

And my last guest that I just talked to was talking about how he had a really good life. He had a beautiful home and a great wife, and he destroyed that life. He destroyed that relationship. And he now understands the mechanisms would cause him that. But for many of us - and this isn't like I want to become an instant billionaire kind of thing. There are people listening to this or other personal development platforms, I think it's the word - self-sabotage is probably the number one thing that's holding them back, that holds so many of us back.

So, in the time we have left, and I know because you said there's infinite universal laws, I imagine there's quite a lot of things that you help people with, but what's called to you right now? What are a couple things that people could do to start overcoming that self-sabotaging behaviors?

Victoria Rader:

I think to give a practical advice and then a free resource to the answer to that, practical advice is there are really three self-sabotaging patterns. One is to the point of I'm not worthy is. It's just I'm not good enough. You can think any version of that. And so, to reverse it into immediate worth is understand that what you've done or doing does not make you unworthy. You just forgot that it is unworthy of you. That's a huge reframe.

So, we've all done things we're not proud of, and if we have this limitation that what I've done takes away from my infinite worth, we will never catch that game up. Never. Because by the end of the day, you and I, with the best intentions, we're decent human beings. We're going to mess up. I'm just going to say something that I didn't mean to. I mean, okay, here we go.

So, once that happens, you're going to remind yourself - I use the language you are a child of God. Use your language, divine spark, whatever your language is - it's unworthy of me because that does two things. It starts auto correcting the behavior and it reminds you of your infinite worth. That's the immediate application.

How do you do it in terms of practicality? Also, when you've done something that you probably shouldn't have, you're going to say that's no longer me Say it out loud, have every cell of the body hear, that's no longer me, that used to be me. But when you do something you're proud of, something that you're growing into, say that is just like me. That is going to lovingly nourish your self-sabotage into oblivion. That's step number one.

The second belief, the second underlying cause is what I want is just out of my reach. For most successful entrepreneurs, for most visionaries I work with, they're thriving, but what I want is just out of my reach. So, that's a deeper concept. It's a deeper concept. That one and the second one parallel to it, I'm so different, I don't belong anywhere.

So, I'm going to address the third one as the words of encouragement. If you feel different, it's because you were born to make a difference. So, don't let the world change you when you were born to change the world. Celebrate your difference. You belong with us. You belong with Dr. Rick. You belong with me. You belong with people that are here to change the world. We're so different.

And the middle one, because it has so many aspects to what I want to stress out of my reach, that is where I would invite everybody to go to mygiftoffer.com. There is a free resource of 20 years of accumulating 50 of the most sabotaging subconscious programs substituting with the 50 freeing patterns of behavior, and a 12-minute video of a Free mE EFT modality that we're spearheading all over the globe of taking you how to release one pattern and to step and affirm the next one. If you do nothing else, there are obviously pop ups of other offers, but if you don't do anything else, if you commit to once a week creating a shift, within 50 weeks, I promise you, your life will take a quantum leap that none of us can foresee, but all of us can benefit from.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Very cool. Very cool. I have enjoyed every second of our time together, Dr. Vica. As you know, I wrap up every episode by asking my guests a single question, and that is, what is your biggest helping, that most important piece of information that you'd like somebody to walk away with after hearing our conversation today?

Victoria Rader:

If this infinite universe had a better way to fill in the place and time that you currently occupy, it would have done so, but it has not. So you, as you are, are exact, intricate, beautiful, powerful, magnificent piece of the puzzle. Remember that and start releasing everything that's unworthy of that.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Beautifully said. Dr. Vica, tell us where people can find you online and learn more about all of the great things you're doing. 

Victoria Rader:

For your gift, mygiftoffer.com. To learn more about us, YU2Shine, Y-U-2-shint-.com.

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Awesome. And for those of you in the gym, we got you covered. Everything Dr. Vica will be in the show notes at drrichardshuster.com. Well, this has been awesome. I have loved our time together. Dr. Vica, thank you so much for joining us today and sharing your wisdom with us.

Victoria Rader:

Thank you for having me. 

Dr. Richard Shuster:

Absolutely. And to each and every one of you who took time out of your day to listen to this, if you liked it, if you're inspired, go give us a follow and a five-star review on your podcast app of choice, because this is what helps other people find the show. But most importantly, go out there today and do something nice for somebody else, even if you don't know who they are, and post it in your feeds using the hashtag #MyDailyHelping, because the happiest people are those that help others.